Sunday, September 30, 2007

Is Natural Hair in the Workplace Really Frowned Upon?




I've been wearing my hair natural (sans a chemical straightening relaxer) since the late 90's. Relaxers were damaging to my hair at times and I often admired the versatility and beauty of natural hair. I was inspired by friends, relatives and hair models in magazines (Essence Magazine) to have the confidence to grow my natural hair out and experiment with various hairstyles. I have worn braids, twists, uprolls, curly-fros, and twist outs, all styles that women with natural hair experiment. Over the long run I seemed to be saving tons of money because I wasn't going to a hair salon every other week or once a month for relaxer touch ups or roller sets. But I was spending money on hair care books (Plaited Glory, Good Hair), hair products (Carol's Daughter, Nature's Gate, Miss Jessie's,Aveda) and professional trims on a regular basis. I got creative and learned how to care for my own hair and along the way I have gotten many compliments! In between wearing natural styles I occasionally have my hair blow dryed straight when I want a different look. I am not going to say that I will never have my hair relaxed again, but I have found that natural hair is extremely versatile and I believed that our culture and society had been accepting of natural hair styles worn by women of color or anyone for that matter.

But then, I recently received an email that a staff person from a magazine, made comments at a professional women's event, which revealed a less than supportive attitude toward women wearing natural hair styles in the workplace.

As far as my hair goes I don't consider it a political statement, nor do I have anything against straight hair or women who relax their hair. You cannot control the texture, shape, or width of your hair, which you were born with. That is all genetics. Women have the right to choose how we present ourselves to the world. We have a right to choose to create an image for ourselves that we are comfortable about and confident about. It is discriminating if anyone in your workplace ever makes dissaproving statements about the way someone wears their hair. Now if your hair or appearance is unkempt or unclean, that's another issue. But wearing neatly styled twists, an afro, braids or locks should not cause an uproar in a person's workplace. People need to focus on the quality of a person's performance on a job, not their hair. But in our society we sometimes focus on very petty things to judge or insult someone rather than the tasks at hand or a person's character. I have never experienced any discrimination on a job because of my hair, it just seems ridiculous that anyone would focus on that in this day and age. But then again, nothing really surprises me too much, anymore.

What do you think?

Monday, September 24, 2007

A Fire in Harlem - Tribute to Sekou Sundiata at UpSouth International Book Festival






REPORT: A Fire in Harlem - Tribute to Sekou Sundiata at UpSouth International Book Festival by DuEwa

On Friday, September 21, 2007, there was a fire in Harlem! A fire was created from the mouths, hearts, and minds of the artists who performed and read in tribute to the late, legendary poet and performer, Sekou Sundiata at the UpSouth International Book Festival at Harlem Stage at The Gatehouse. The entire festival this year was dedicated to the memory of Sekou Sundiata (1948-2007).

Around 7:40pm the program began with a graceful introduction by the mistress of ceremonies, Malaika Adero, founder of the UpSouth International Book Festival. Malaika informed the audience that the evening's program featuring Sonia Sanchez, Danny Simmons and Queen Esther, was in tribute to Sekou Sundiata, who had been a longtime friend of hers. She told a funny story of how Sekou called her out of the blue one day and said, "I'm standing right here in front of your church." Malaika told the audience, "I don't hide the fact that I don't go to church so I asked him, 'What church is that?'" Malaika told us Sekou replied, "I'm standing in front of the UpSouth Baptist Church here in Brooklyn." She mentioned that she hadn't gotten a chance to see the church yet, but would make it a point to get by there and take a picture of it. Malaika pointed out an African inspired altar to the left of the stage, created by master designer and visual artist, Xenobia Bailey, in Sekou's honor. Malaika also revealed that the idea for the UpSouth International Book Festival was created out of many spirited conversations she had with Sekou Sundiata and other artists about what the community needed culturally.

Immediately following Malaika's introduction to the event, was a reading by Danny Simmons. Danny, a well known poet, painter, novelist, producer of HBO Def Poetry Jam, and philanthropist, read from his new, visually stunning book of poetry, I Dreamed My People Were Calling But Couldn't Find My Way Home. The poems Danny read from his collection included "History 101 The Negro Problem" and "The Jigaboo Waltz." Danny who told the audience he's been writing poetry "since I was a kid", presented poems which revealed raw imagery, an emotional depth and a love for community and heritage.

Following Danny was the prolific and awe-inspiring poet,author,activist and teacher, Sonia Sanchez. I had not seen Dr. Sanchez in performance since her Full Moon of Sonia concert at the Tribeca Performing Arts Center a few years ago. Gone was the lioness mane of silver locks, Dr. Sanchez was now sporting a beautiful afro. Dr. Sanchez's petite frame wore a multi-colored Asian inspired blouse and dark colored slacks. She gave the audience an energetic greeting, asked how everyone was feeling and thanked Malaika Adero for coordinating the performances. Thereafter, Dr. Sanchez began reciting a long cross generational list of names of great artists, leaders, educators and others in the form of a tribute chant. I had heard her do this before. We the audience felt her intention to pay homage to the many people who have shaped and contributed to our world through their chosen paths. Dr. Sanchez mentioned everyone from Coretta Scott King and Malcolm X to Ursula Rucker, Oprah Winfrey, Nelson Mandela and Mos Def. After her chant, Dr. Sanchez talked about her work with youth and how important it is for adults not to turn their backs on the young. She highlighted a time when she was about to teach a class and a young man blurted out the "F-word" to get attention. As she began to teach the other students, the young man kept cursing, seemingly to try and get a rise out of Dr. Sanchez. But Dr. Sanchez kept her cool. She mentioned to the audience that other teachers may have gotten upset, argued with the young man or kicked him out, but instead of reacting in those ways, she chose to use the young man's actions and turn it into a teaching moment. So she said to the young man, "Did you just say f*ck? Or did you say F*CK!?" Dr. Sanchez recalls that she began repeating the "F-word" over and over and talking with the students about the many ways to say it, using different intonations. This is the GENIUS of Sonia Sanchez! She told the audience, "By then he stopped saying 'f*ck'." She then asked the students, "Okay so what rhymes with 'f*ck?'" Dr. Sanchez said to us while laughing, "I'm still crazy you know!" The audience laughed with her. Dr. Sanchez further explains how she took what could've been a negative situation with a young person and used it to teach the students more about language, creativity and imagination.

Dr. Sanchez went on to perform poems relating to peace and freedom. In between reading, she told the audience about her travels to different schools and colleges and her discussions with young people about the war and what it means for each person in our society and the world to begin to live a peaceful life. She also talked about how passionate she is about getting people to understand all of what is going on in our world and how we can better deal with the challenges, including caring more about our environment and what will happen in the years to come if we ignore nature's signs of imbalance. Dr. Sanchez made many powerful statements during her reading, including "If you beat your wife or you beat your husband, you are not being peaceful, you are not practicing peace. Peace begins at home."

A performance by singer, Queen Esther followed Sonia Sanchez. Queen Esther's voice is reminiscient of classic blues, rock and surprisingly, country. The Harlem-based songbird sang songs from her latest CD "Talkin Fishbowl Blues" including "Stand By Your Man" (which she said was "Sekou's favorite" and "every black girl's anthem"), "Promise Me" , and "Taster's Choice." Queen Esther was nominated for an Audelco Award for her role in the theater production of Harlem Song. Malaika Adero closed out the program with a Q & A session between the audience, Sonia Sanchez and Danny Simmons, and final words on the life and artistic contributions of Sekou Sundiata.

The UpSouth International Book Festival continued on through the weekend with dialogues on lyrical content (Danyel Smith, Akim Bryant, Gordon Chambers, and Anthony David), performances by more notable poets and musicians (Askia Toure, Abiodun Oyewole, Gordon Chambers, and Anthony David), author signings (Tina McElroy Ansa, Martha Southgate, and Saidya Hartman) and a culminating program featuring Amiri Baraka & Blue Ark and Linton Kwesi Johnson. Although I wasn't able to attend the remainder of the festival's events after Friday's tribute to Sekou Sundiata, I am sure that the rest of the stellar line-up at the UpSouth International Book Festival continued to fan the flames, bringing magnificent fury to Harlem.

For more information on the UpSouth International Book Festival visit www.upsouth.org.

Saturday, September 22, 2007

Interviewing Dyanne Davis on Rhymes, Views & News


Dyanne Davis is an award winning romance novelist, residing in the Chicago-area who is the author of several novels. I recently finished reading her latest book, MANY SHADES OF GRAY (Genesis Press) and was quite impressed with Dyanne's talent to weave such a tight story line around three characters: Janice Lace (Mary Jo Adams), Simon Kohl and Tommy Strong. Without saying too much about the book (because I plan to write a review), Dyanne really takes you on an emotional ride through the hearts and minds of the main characters and what it means to romantically love someone in the present, while still feeling an intense connection of both love and pain with someone else from the past.

I'll be interviewing Dyanne Davis on Rhymes, Views & News tomorrow at 5pm EST if you have a chance to listen-in and check it out!

For more on Dyanne Davis and her many works and awards, visit:
www.dyannedavis.com and www.myspace.com/dyannedavis.com

P.S. I attended last night's UpSouth International Book Festival program at Harlem Stage featuring Sonia Sanchez, Danny Simmons and Queen Esther and it was awesome! More on that later!

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

What Season Are You In?


Do you ever find yourself in the midst of a time in your life and you're not quite sure what to call it? Maybe you're doing all the same things you've done in the past, things are going well, but you have an itch, a hunger and GREAT want & need for something a little different. Perhaps you're switching things up in your career, personal life, & in mind, body and spirit. You "sound different" they say. You "look different", you are not the same ole' predictable you. Could it be that you're in a NEW SEASON? You're transforming, dreaming, planning, creating, desiring, contemplating, reflecting (and perhaps procrastinating) right before our very eyes!!!!! Could it be you're embracing a NEW SEASON?

These words may not make much sense to you , but they do for me because I just recently came off of a CrAzY whirlwind year: promoting books (Check the Rhyme Anthology), producing/hosting/performing in events (in NYC, Philly, B-more, ATL & CALI), nurturing relationships/friendships & networking, teaching (middle school English, workshops for girls), and really taking a look at the BIG PICTURE that was/is my life & all that I desire my life to be. After this past year I came to the conclusion that: I NEED A CHANGE!!! In life, you have one chance to do what you love, laugh, be with people you feel good about (who also make you feel good), become what you love & serve the world in one way or another (whether you are good, bad, indifferent, beautiful or ugly).

I'm not mad at you if you're not sure what you want to do, however, I have one bit of advice if you are NOT SURE what you want to do: get still/get quiet/& possibly/maybe get lost. Okay that was more than a bit of advice. What I mean is this: many people will tell you who you are, who you need to be, what they want you to do, who they need you to be, what their dreams/goals/desires were when they were your age/living where you are/knowing the type of people you know/ & may want to know/try to live vicariously through you, directing your life subtley, urging you along with their agenda in mind (blah blah blah). Before you know it. You wake up one day to find, you've been quietly, dutifully floating alone & along, on the gigantic wave of O.P.P. (or O.P.E. - other people's expectations).
Do what you need to do, to get where you want to be and when by writing your own script.

Okay, getting back to my original question: What Season Are You In? You'll know that you're in the glorious season of You when you are finally doing what you want to do, on your own terms without fear, without taking in the insecurities and negativity of others, without doubts, and with the blessings of those who you truly need, admire & are inspired by. I'm in a new season and I'M LOVING IT!!! I can't share all the details (because I'm a girl who always likes to leave a little mystery)...but I will say that this blog is a part of it! From time to time I may post excerpts of essays/articles I've written or I may rant on something totally about pop culture, and that's okay, because for this blog I am not following any rules...
I now have an internet radio show titled...(drum roll please) RHYMES, VIEWS & NEWS created for me to talk about books, interview authors, talk about events, talk about my books & events and just really have a ball exploring the topics which interest me! Listen in this Sunday, September 23rd when I talk with author Dyanne Davis about her latest novel, Many Shades of Gray (Genesis Press).

I previously interviewed my friend and fellow author, Gloria Mallette regarding her ninth and latest novel, Living, Breathing Lies (Gemini Press) and Festival Founder and Editor, Malaika Adero of the UpSouth International Book Festival here in New York City.
I'll be updating you on author/creative/inspirational folk who I interview, as well as upcoming events & my creative adventures.

Stay tuned & don't forget to reflect upon my question-
What Season Are You In?

~ Peace, DuEwa

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