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Do you know when to quit?

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Most of us were taught by family members and mentors, at a young age not to be a quitter and to “Finish what you start!” In our highly fast paced society, whether we’re facing burnout from a job we hate, an unsatisfying relationship, or distancing ourselves from a toxic friend, we often freeze, feeling mentally and emotionally stuck and at a crucial crossroad as we ponder hurting (or dissapointing others) versus hurting ourselves. As adults we try to be diplomatic in difficult relationships and on our jobs. We try to say the right thing and do the right thing at all times, sometimes weighing the consequences (and the benefits) of walking away from something or someone. Often times we just end up staying way too long and we have our reasons: “I don’t want to be without a job (you’re afraid to look for a new one or lack the confidence that you can receive a new one)” and “What would my parents think if I leave this job/position/career?” and “I don’t want to hurt his/her feelings if ...